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Pole Goals

Regardless of a pole dance level we all have that special move on the horizon we're desperately trying to achieve. Knee hold has been my Nemesis move for ages. Finally got it last year Pole Goals make me try harder every time a come to studio to practice. Achieving them helps tracking my progress and generally makes me feel good for a time. Here is a list of moves I tried to get at different stages of my pole journey. Beginners (poling for less than a year): 1) Butterfly  2) Gemini - Scorpio transition  3) Superman  (what a surprise) Intermediate (2 years into pole): 1) Shoulder Mount  2) Aeysha  3) Jade Advanced (not even sure I'm 100% on this level after almost 3 years of doing pole): 1) Iron X (total nemesis move) 2) Russian Split 3) Iguana Air Walk (or whatever it's called) Expert (hoping to be here one day): 1) Fongi 2) Deadlift (if I do it, I'll die happy) 3) Spatchcock 4) Bird of Paradise 5) Starfish...

Russian Split Angle

Russian Split is one of the prettiest pole splits, at least in my opinion. One can say I mastered it all right, but the truth is that a lot of issues still remain. The move was a constant struggle from start to finish. 1) Fear Kind of similar to what I felt while learning a full Layback. The gaping abyss of nothingness below, feeling of falling into it breaking my neck along the way. Literally that bad. I knew my body was strong enough to keep myself in a required position, but my brain said "nope, you'll fall and die a slow and painful death". The solution was as usual to push through the fear, first through spotting, then using a crash mat to build up my confidence. Took me about two months to get past that stage, but I did it. First attempts. Good side split, but bad side Cupid, so had to start over from a different side later on 2) Bad Side This issue haunts me non-stop. My left split is no good even on the floor, and it pains me even more in my...

Pointy Toes Issue

Not really a pole fitness progress post, but rather something that's constantly bothering me. Pointy toes, or more likely their absence. You watch somebody doing a fantastic, difficult combo or a pretty spin, thinking how awesome it looks... and then you see them, slack flexed feet (sad face). I usually completely lose interest after I notice those naughty feet more than once, or hate myself for not looking after mine. The thing is, no matter how great the move is, if you don't keep an eye on your toes, the whole look is ruined. It's also good to remember that most of the judges at the comps have some sort of gymnastics or ballet background, and they do notice those things. But even if you're not competing, paying attention to what your feet are doing is important. It is easy to get carried away during your practice session and completely forget about your toes, while focusing on a new difficult trick. However, pointy toes is a great part of a successful move. ...

Shouldermount

One of the most satisfying moments on my pole fitness journey was when I finally managed to do a shoulder mount. It felt absolutely  fantastic, like I was the best pole dancer in the world, for a brief moment :) It always looked really cool and hard to do at the same time, and that's why I started working on it. Not sure if there is any particular trick to help you get a good shoulder mount. I used to start by jumping into it. I know it's totally wrong and you should never ever do it, but just admit, everybody did it at some point whether with normal invert, or a shoulder mount. It gave me enough momentum to get my bum up that pole to frantically catch it with my feet. When my first clumsy attempt was a success, I got confidence that a proper shoulder mount is achievable. Working on a proper technique is much harder than it seems, you know you could cheat and jump, instead of using muscles to lift yourself up. And once you try it a proper way, suddenly it's a million...

Superman Superpain

I'm sure every single pole dancer at some point of their pole journey wished to get a perfect Superman. And by that I don't mean to find a super attractive boyfriend to show off their fantastic pole skills to :) Superman is a pain. Literally. When I tried it for the first time it felt like my skin was burning and freezing at the same time. Every attempt left fresh bruises that just wouldn't go away. Not sure what is wrong with this particular trick. It takes ages to find a spot that doesn't hurt like hell, but then it miraculously stops being painful and you're sweet just hanging there for ages. At least that's how it was for   me . I managed to hold the move fairly quickly after I first started working on it. It didn't look too bad either, but damn, the pain was unbearable! You can always keep a poker face and pretend that nothing is going on, but if it hurts then the move is not well executed. I do realize now, that the problem was in my body positi...

Layback Trouble

It may seem silly to a lot of pole dancers, including beginners, that I'm covering this topic. Lots of people get their Ful Layback in the first two months, others however are struggling with it for quite some time. When I first started pole dancing, most beginners moves were quite easy for me. Onehanded Layback was not a problem either.And then I tried the Layback, and it didn't work. At all. The problem was in a fear, irrational of course, my grip was holding OK,  but my brain wasn't convinced. Those last centimeters seemed like a gaping abyss I'll fall into, should I let go off my hands. It was extremely frustrating. I enjoyed pole so much and wanted to progress faster, inspired by students from more advanced classes. So annoying to get stuck with something simple, according to other students. Embarrassing as it is, I gave up on the move, telling myself that there a lot of other exciting stuff to learn and Layback can wait just a little bit longer. After t...

Aeysha Stepping Stone

I'd like to talk about Ayesha, because for a lot of pole dancers, including myself, it is or was the biggest pole goal to achieve. Whether it is an elbow grip, hand spring or true grip version, nailing Aeysha is a stepping stone and a door to a more advanced pole fitness. This is how I started One of my first steps looked like this To say that I was obsessed, means to say nothing. Since I started taking classes again it became the one and only move I desperately wanted to get. At first my extended butterfly was secured and that gave me hope that my hand grip is strong enough to move on to more advanced stuff. Next step was a caterpillar climb. It took about a month to get comfortable with it.  No need to mention, that caterpillar was a goal itself. If this climb is mastered, you are one step closer to  your Aeysha. September 2015. Finally got it! My first attempts started from taking my bent knees away from the pole, trying to find the balance. Once it was...